Republicans and the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgendered community can coexist with each other, but one side does not have to be required to be the beard for the Republican Party to join in the party.
There are issues that LGBT Republicans and their straight allies support such as cutting federal spending, reducing our federal budget deficit, defending the second amendment and promoting a business climate conducive to economic growth. But the traditional values crowd does not want LGBT people in the party or the movement because they believe LGBT people do not deserve equal rights or protection under the law.
But inviting groups like GoProud will do damage to LGBT people because it gives cover to these individuals to say “I am not a bigot, I am not a hater, I have gay friends” is what I hear often as a retort when the people I know express their opposition to equality legislation. But how do you consider them friends if you are not going to treat them as equals?
Social conservatives like Ben Lopez who works for Lou Sheldon’s Traditional Values Collation would be out of a job if the Republican Party was more inclusive to the LGBT community and that is why they had their fangs out for GoProud even though they are more towards other issues and not much on gay equality issues. If society was more accepting towards LGBT people then Lou Sheldon and friends would not have any ammunition to use on gullible senior citizens like my late great aunt who used to donate to them.
As a Republican, I find the Log Cabin Republicans a better organization because they mostly believe in civil rights and most Republican issues. Removing issues such as Employment Non Discrimination and Marriage equality from a gay Republican group just makes you not as different as other conservative lobbying groups. Repealing DADT was actually fiscally conservative because we will not have to waste money retraining the replaced fired military members. And employment non discrimination is a good thing because it would reduce the reliance on government aid for the transgendered and they would least likely to be sex workers or drug dealers where there would be an incentive to employ them.